UPDATE: I have been meaning to press publish on this for over a year. Not sure where I was (physical or mentally) when I wrote this, but I know I did it on my cell phone….
I have spent most of my professional career trying to find this mystical thing called “work life balance”. Only recently did I figure out I did not know what that ever really means. No one that I know wants to be working all the time, even the self proclaimed work-a-holics like myself can not do it all the time with serious consequences in our lives. Relationships are damaged; scars are made; and the ones you are close to (or at least pretend to be) are hurt.
Last night while doing some leisure reading (which I never to do ), I happened upon a book of short stories by J. D. Salinger: Nine Stories. ( I have been caring this book with me for about a year now). The story “A Perfect Day for Banana Fish” basically tells the story of a super depressed and mis-understood guy who comes to an untimely and unfortunate end. When I finished this story the first time, I could only think: “wow I must be missing something, but I really don’t want to be this guy.”
The answer I found: Make time for what really matters. Everything else comes second. Make the list of things or people or experiences you can not live with out and make sure you are prioritizing them in your life. No one else can do this for you. Rest is taking the time to live life on your terms no matter what it takes.

